First impression n looks are not real or the truth

   I believe my eyes n my heart, but I'm not dare enough to make decisions in life, when I'm not ready fur any commitments, I just voice out but it reaches only the outsiders, the own blood however unable to study my tears n my view, people just want to stress what they know best. They want to prove that they are strong n capable just by forcing the very weakone to listen to their views n their decessions though vv clearly  tI explained to them the reason and why they are not ready to commit them selves into any responsibilities which are beyond their strength or ability,by listening  to the older ones n making them happy countless motherless n father's youngsters fell into a dangerous well which has no promise or nothing to offer them , to inspire them or to excel  in their life. I hv seen several suicide cases, where the lady was forced by her parents to marry a man of their choice n he was a stranger.. a vv soft lady who expect the family environment she lived, with her parents she will experience but unfortunately, her life was full of missery, daily physically n emotionally she was tortured by the person she married, inseveral months of her marriage, she shared her missery with her female friends n showed them the scars made by her husband, who burnt her tummy n breast with cigarettes daily.. Her friends pitied her, in a year she commitsuicide by pouring Carosine n burnt herself, she had a baby..

Another incident a twenty year old ambitious girl who was a book worm married off by her parents to her uncle's son. She had 3 kids in 4 years of married life.  At 25 she was a mother of 3 children. Due to non stop bleeding, her uterus was removed, in  2 months, she commitsuicide due to stress n depression after removal of uterus . Such incidents and cases are very common among the uneducated and conservative parents, who spoil their child future n life due to their stupidity..